our email: thematernallens@gmail.com
follow us on twitter!

1.05.2010

{ They are listening }

So, this is part photography blog, and part mommy blog, and with this post I am attempting to give you a taste of both.

I was reading an article today, and found it impossible not to share some of it. Hopefully you will love it as much as I did, and put some or all of it to good use.

With our busy, day to day lives, sometimes it is easy to forget to be really present and 'talk' to our children. Of course they know we love them, but sometimes we forget the things that they need to hear, and hear often.


{19 Things we should say to our Children}

1. I love you! There is nothing that will make me stop loving you. Nothing you could do or say or think will ever change that.

All you need is... (edit)

2. You are amazing! I look at you with wonder! Not just at what you can do, but who you are. There is no one like you. No one!

Is anybody up there?

3. It’s all right to cry. People cry for all kinds of reasons: when they are hurt, sad, glad, or worried; when they are angry, afraid, or lonely. Big people cry too. I do.

IMG_4144_WEB

4. You’ve made a mistake. That was wrong. People make mistakes. I do. Is it something we can fix? What can we do? It’s all over. You can start fresh. I know you are sorry. I forgive you.

summer afternoon

5. You did the right thing. That was scary or hard. Even though it wasn’t easy, you did it. I am proud of you; you should be too.

Tiny Snail 092(3)watermark

6. I’m sorry. Forgive me. I made a mistake.

IMG_8578 copy_WEB

7. You can change your mind. It’s good to decide, but it is also fine to change.

juneseventh 037-2webwatermark

8. What a great idea! You were really thinking! How did you come up with that? Tell me more. Your mind is clever!

coupe 047webwatermark

9. That was kind. You did something helpful and thoughtful for that person. That must make you feel good inside. Thank you!

Sheriff ²

10. I have a surprise for you. It’s not your birthday. It’s for no reason at all. Just a surprise, a little one, but a surprise.

"It's for you."

11. I can wait. We have time. You don’t have to hurry this time.

perry 044webwatermark

12. What would you like to do? It’s your turn to pick. You have great ideas. It’s important to follow your special interests.

fathersday 055watermark

13. Tell me about it. I’d like to hear more. And then what happened? I’ll listen.

Charlie

14. I’m right here. I won’t leave without saying good-bye. I am watching you. I am listening to you.

Global Village

15. Please and Thank You. These are important words. If I forget to use them, will you remind me?

Dairy Queen 040(2)webwatermark

16. I missed you. I think about you when we are not together!

my girl...

17. Just try. A little bit. One taste, one step. You might like it. Let’s see. I’ll help you if you need it. I think you can do it.

cake 104(2)webwatermark

18. I’ll help you. I heard you call me, here I am. How can I help you? If we both work together, we can get this done. I know you can do it by yourself, but I’m glad to help since you asked.

Making cinnamon rolls with Grandma...

19. What do you wish for? Even if it’s not yet time for birthday candles and we don’t have a wishbone, it’s still fun to hear about what you wish for, hope for, and dream about.

The best place to seek God is in the garden.


{*The original source for this article can be found HERE } Ü

228 comments:

  1. thank you for such a beautiful reminder .. perfect!

    ReplyDelete
  2. Anonymous1/05/2010

    beautiful. what a wonderful post. thank you.

    tamsen

    ReplyDelete
  3. Love this post, it so much reminded me of The Little Prince by Exupéry. All of this things are teaching kids to become loving, caring and resposible adults that is getting be rare in our times. Picture choises are perfect as well. Thank you so much for this post!

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Anonymous12/22/2012

      How does it remind you of the Little Prince?

      Delete
  4. It's rare that a post makes me tear up and get goosebumps. Thank you for this. :) And for the gentle reminder of the messages we need to send out kids, especially those of us that didn't get these messages given to us.
    Dana

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Anonymous6/21/2012

      Agree!

      Delete
    2. Anonymous10/29/2012

      Couldn't have said it better myself!

      Delete
    3. Anonymous11/04/2012

      I'm right there with you, Buttercupyaya.

      Delete
  5. That was surprisingly moving...I'm proud of myself that the list wasn't totally unfamiliar to me. I'm doing a pretty good job listening. Thanks for the reminder ...and the reassurance.

    ReplyDelete
  6. What a beautiful post. Many thoughts we seem to forget...

    ReplyDelete
  7. THIS is my all time favorite ML post! Such important words, such beautiful photos to accompany them! Thank you for sharing these.

    ReplyDelete
  8. Beautiful words that I love to share with my twins. Thank you. xox

    ReplyDelete
  9. love this! thanks so much for sharing....I wish I could hang this on my fridge! : )

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Anonymous4/11/2012

      you can hang it on your fridge...I'm printing it up on my computer and hanging it for a reminder! :)

      Delete
  10. A wonderful and important post!! With gorgeous images :)

    ReplyDelete
  11. What a beautiful and simple reminder of what to do and say to our little loves. Thanks for sharing this.

    ReplyDelete
  12. Just what I needed to hear today. I have three sick kiddos and my patience is thin. Off to squeeze, hug, and snuggle!

    ReplyDelete
  13. Wow, so inspirational! Thank you for this.

    ReplyDelete
  14. love them all! It is so hard to be a parent sometimes and it is so easy to overlook the little things that our children need. I have found that every once in awhile, pulling one of my boys aside and telling that how glad I am that I had them and that I am so blessed by them usually gets a big grin and of course laughing when they make a joke. They think it is great when they are funny hehe

    ReplyDelete
  15. Such a good reminder to share some real special moments with your children....sometimes the most meaningful memories you make with your children are free. THanks so much for sharing!!

    ReplyDelete
  16. I LOVE this post! So beautiful and perfect!

    ReplyDelete
  17. I so love this. Thank you for sharing.

    ReplyDelete
  18. those were great, thanks for sharing!

    ReplyDelete
  19. Anonymous1/10/2010

    Awww, as a Grandmother I wish I could do it all over! I have great grown-up children, though, and will remember these words to live by for my grandchildren. Thank you.

    ReplyDelete
  20. Beautiful! I love what you have done with this. The message is as great as the photos!

    ReplyDelete
  21. Beautiful. So glad I do say these to my girls. Such important words we spread ...

    ReplyDelete
  22. May He bless you abundantly for reminding me of these special truths today...

    ReplyDelete
  23. What a great post! We are all humans and being reminded as to what is important is, well, important.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. What a treasure to share! Know too, that the kiddos never get to old to hear these important words...Thanks for creating a pathway to discover our children in many more ways! And what wonderful people the will become for our efforts...

      Delete
  24. Anonymous3/03/2012

    This is so ~PERFECT~

    ReplyDelete
  25. Anonymous3/03/2012

    perfect words to live by! Thanks for the reminder!

    ReplyDelete
  26. Anonymous3/03/2012

    What a beautiful reminder!

    ReplyDelete
  27. Anonymous3/03/2012

    Absolutely beautiful!

    ReplyDelete
  28. Anonymous3/04/2012

    in my quest to help them make good choices I forget sometimes to watch them grow. thank you for this.

    ReplyDelete
  29. Anonymous3/04/2012

    Thank you so much for putting these together. Great reminders to us all. And also great for those of us who are teachers - these little reminders should go up in every classroom.

    ReplyDelete
  30. I need to try number 11! That would shock a few children around here! haha! =)

    ReplyDelete
  31. Anonymous3/04/2012

    As a teacher, I am going to type these up and tape them to my desk. I need to remember these phrases for my students as well as my own kids!!

    ReplyDelete
  32. I've been feeling like a terrible mother today, just wishing there was a rule book on how to be perfect. This helped, and was encouraging, even to me: I make mistakes, but I can do better. Tomorrow is another day, and I want my daughters to know I feel all of these things for them. Thank you.

    ReplyDelete
  33. Anonymous3/05/2012

    My kids are are grown and I can still use every one of these...and now, through the Lord's blessing, I have a granddaughter to use them on as well :)
    God Bless.

    ReplyDelete
  34. This comment has been removed by the author.

    ReplyDelete
  35. Anonymous3/05/2012

    Thank you for this. Today was awful-- I have teething twins, and today was particularly bad for all of us. This was exactly what I needed to put things back into perspective. Thank you.

    ReplyDelete
  36. Anonymous3/06/2012

    Beautiful. Thank you.

    ReplyDelete
  37. Anonymous3/06/2012

    This is lovely!

    ReplyDelete
  38. Thank you! Will be reposting this so that I can remember!

    ReplyDelete
  39. Anonymous3/07/2012

    What treasures!!! Words are so important for our children at all ages, for our grandchildren, for our students, our friends, our spouses & for any of us for that matter!!! I copied & hand wrote each of these into my journal and as doing so, I also felt like the daughter I am to my Heavenly Father. I felt treasured as if He too were speaking these words over me!!!! Be kind with all your words as you don't know what someone, yes, even our little kiddos, are going through at any given moment!!! Thank you for this post, it was BEAUTIFUL and has given me warm fuzzies, allowing the "little girl" in me to feel Loved!!!!

    ReplyDelete
  40. Anonymous3/07/2012

    Brought tears to my eyes. :)

    ReplyDelete
  41. Anonymous3/08/2012

    you forgot I am proud of you.you did a wonderful job.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Anonymous4/11/2012

      I agree! I try to say "I am proud of you". Often!

      Delete
  42. Awww - I love this! I think it should be posted on my wall to remind us as parents what is important

    ReplyDelete
  43. Anonymous3/09/2012

    Love these! I plan to put together a "book" for a couple who are expecting their first child in June. These will be added along with other bits if wisdom I have collected and learned from experience. Thank you!!

    ReplyDelete
  44. absolutely lovely post! :) Thank you!

    ReplyDelete
  45. This is very much appreciated and these words are such good reminders.!

    ReplyDelete
  46. Greetings -

    Thank you for your encouraging and heart-warming post.

    You've provided an excellent reminder, not only that our children are listening to us, but of the critical role mothers and fathers play in the growth of their kids.

    I am going to suggest this to my readers.

    Best wishes for continued success!

    Guy

    ReplyDelete
  47. Anonymous3/16/2012

    I have tears in my eyes, thank you.

    ReplyDelete
  48. Anonymous3/19/2012

    Beautiful reminders! we need to think of these each day when things are so busy and hectic! We will never have this moment again and time goes by so quickly!

    ReplyDelete
  49. I LOVE this!!! May I repost your ideas on my blog if I give you full credit and link back here???

    ReplyDelete
  50. My boys are newly 16, 21 and 24 and while I tried to tell them all these things, I'm sure I forgot to often...but I still work to make sure they know all this especially that no matter what (teenage troubles) i will always love them, that I trust their decisions and will support them, and if it doesn't work out its something you should be proud you tried anyway...thanks for this great reminder!

    ReplyDelete
  51. Anonymous3/23/2012

    Thank you, I Love this!!! I try to tell my son all of these things and am sure I forgot some of them so thank you for reminding me Bless you!

    ReplyDelete
  52. Anonymous3/30/2012

    Wow. This IS perfect. Wonderful. Convicting. Perfectly said, each of the 19 things "to say". I love this. Thank you so much!

    ReplyDelete
  53. Anonymous4/11/2012

    Thank-you that was lovely

    ReplyDelete
  54. Amazing and beautiful list. True, ever last one of them.

    ReplyDelete
  55. Beautiful! Thank you for this!

    ReplyDelete
  56. Awesome reminders. I really love this. But, I wonder about the original source. You mention you read an article & had to share so I'm curious where the original article can be found? You should always credit your sources!

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. I added the source! Thanks for bringing my attention to that oversight.

      Delete
  57. This is a beautiful list! Thank you for posting this!

    Mary
    Mrs. Lirette's Learning Detectives

    ReplyDelete
  58. Just found this today {through Pinterest} - <3 this list! Thanks so much for sharing!

    ReplyDelete
  59. Thank you thank you thank you for this must needed message

    ReplyDelete
  60. Dear ones. This is Grahamcracker speaking:
    All these things are important to say to children; but I really think #6 YOU saying you're sorry to your children cannot be overrated.
    It DEMONSTRATES that you make mistakes and can recover from them. It SHOWS them that they, their ideas, and their actions are important and valued. Here's the other thing though: Occasionally you need to tell them this: "What you did/said was very unkind and it makes me very sad? You need to think about how you can make it right." I know it's related to #4 "You made a mistake" but kindness and accountability are important for your child's future integrity and empathy.

    Mommies and Daddies when you forget to do these things promise me you won't be too tough on yourself. Try again tomorrow!!!
    Lovvies, Grahamcracker

    ReplyDelete
  61. Anonymous5/01/2012

    Beautiful.

    ReplyDelete
  62. My wife sent me a link to this. I need to say these more often, just to remind them how great they are.

    ReplyDelete
  63. Anonymous5/11/2012

    Wonderful! Thank you for making a beautiful, caring list that doesn't include the bible or praying. I'm Christian, but lately it's really been bugging me. I've met very wonderful caring parents of many different faiths so I think that it's really important that your list doesn't exclude anyone - it's just generous. Thank you.
    <3

    ReplyDelete
  64. Wow, I don't even have kids and that was wonderful. Thanks for sharing.

    ReplyDelete
  65. This is lovely. BUT, you really should not be reposting someone else's content like this. Even leaving a small link at the bottom like you've done, doesn't truly give credit where it's due. It's actually stealing of content. The right thing to do is list a few of them and then LINK to the original article.

    ReplyDelete
  66. Anonymous5/29/2012

    It's sad that my mother rarely said any of these things to me. And when she did, she just wanted me to say it back to her (i.e. "I love you"...pause....waiting for me to respond like a robot that I love her too because she needed validation). I think a child shouldn't be forced to say "I love you, too" unless they want to say it. I know that was not the purpose of this post, I'm just venting. I will be a MUCH better mother than my own mother was!

    ReplyDelete
  67. Anonymous6/19/2012

    My dad raised me by himself and I've heard variations of most of these. The only one I've never heard is "what do you wish for?". That is the one that I've always needed to hear. No one has ever asked me.
    When I have kids, I will always remember this.

    ReplyDelete
  68. Anonymous6/23/2012

    These are some of the best suggestions I've ever read concerning our interaction with children. Should be required reading for all, parents & non-parents alike. Well done.

    ReplyDelete
  69. Anonymous7/01/2012

    Fantastic reminders!! Thank you!

    ReplyDelete
  70. Anonymous7/17/2012

    I'm a new mom and its a beautiful reminder and lesson as my daughter and I learn and grow together! Thank you for sharing this.. It really made my day!! <3<3<3<3

    ReplyDelete
  71. Anonymous7/27/2012

    Beutiful

    ReplyDelete
  72. Mary Lou8/02/2012

    My daughters are 30 and 32 and you're right, these words are ALWAYS important to hear. Our favorite when they were growing up was, "and THEN what happened?" Now, we never end any phone call without saying "I love you."

    ReplyDelete
  73. .....wish more of this generations busy busy parents & grandparents would slow down a bit, take time to read this post / blog and realize its what you say and do that matters most; NOT what you buy. Thank you for making me smile and I nod in agreement to all 19 items and way more. xo xo xo (my children are 36 & 33....stepchildren 35 & 34.....granddarlings 19, 13, 12, 11, 10, 9, 9, 8, 3, 3,

    ReplyDelete
  74. .....wish more of this generations busy busy parents & grandparents would slow down a bit, take time to read this post / blog and realize its what you say and do that matters most; NOT what you buy. Thank you for making me smile and I nod in agreement to all 19 items and way more. xo xo xo (my children are 36 & 33....stepchildren 35 & 34.....granddarlings 19, 13, 12, 11, 10, 9, 9, 8, 3, 3,

    ReplyDelete
  75. Anonymous8/30/2012

    Beautiful :)

    ReplyDelete
  76. This is lovely, thank you!!

    ReplyDelete
  77. As a mom of 3 wonderful daughters, 2 step daughters, who have now made me a gram... I wish I would have been wise enough to raise them with the help of these 19 items. I am keeping this list close to me so I can use this wisdom during all my loving moments with the grand babies! thank you

    ReplyDelete
  78. Thank you! I cried looking at this because I am a new mom and I am a hectic career woman (attorney) trying to balance my new life. the moments are fleeting and each is to be cherished. While i sit here at my desk making money to support my family, someone else is raising my child and I am missing the moments. I realize it is the best i can do, with what I have, where I am at...but it hurts in the pit of my stomach.
    I also cried because there will be no fishing with grandpa for my son. (Pic. #11). My daddy died one month after my son was born. And in that regard I mourn for my baby boy and for my dad's spirit as he left this world. Time is precious and sometimes we don't have the "time" to wait...Sorry to vent to a group of strangers but this blog caught me a bit unguarded...enjoy your time with young and old alike--and hopefully together.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Anonymous9/20/2012

      I know how you feel about the mourning. My grandfather (who was more like a father to me) passed away 4 months before my son was born. Before he passed, my grandfather held his 4 children (the youngest passed when she was 15 mins old) on pillows to admire them, and he did the same with all 5 of us grandchildren and the 6 great grandchildren that he had before my son came around. There was no pillow holding for my son, there will be no sitting on the porch listening to stories of the old days, no watching the deer in the garden, or playing games while grandpa playfully teased. BUT, since my son was born 4 years ago, we talk about my grandpa. He hears about how wonderful of man he was. I have a picture of him in my son's bedroom and every night after we say his prayers, he always talks to Grandpa and tells him about his day, new things he's learning/learned, and his wishes. It is very hard when you lose someone special, just remember that they are always with us in our hearts and memories. What better way to pay tribute to someone special, than to share memories about them. I am crying as I am typing this b/c today is a hard day, it is my Grandpa's birthday....he would be 93 today, but my son and I spent the day talking about him and he listened while I told him stories of things I did with him when I was a child. The hurt never goes away, its been 5 years this passed August 31st and it still hurts horribly, but remembering the special times make it more bearable as the years pass. I will be praying for you if that is ok.

      Delete
  79. this is so special. literally got me choked up and i am usually not too sappy. thank u! lovely!

    ReplyDelete
  80. Anonymous9/23/2012

    Thank you for sharing. This is a great reminder.

    ReplyDelete
  81. Anonymous9/23/2012

    Thank you so much, it made me feel good that I am doing the right thing for my son, after being bullied for my own parents I have been trying to raise my son doing and saying all the opposite things I grew up with, hoping I was doing right, I can say I am proud I am in good path with my son, thank you so much.

    ReplyDelete
  82. Anonymous9/24/2012

    WoW, What a wonderful gathering of thoughts and practices. As a Father of 9 and now GrandPa of 25 I appreciate and bless the limited things I managed to do from the list. Until now, it is never too late while your on this side of the grass.

    ReplyDelete
  83. Anonymous9/24/2012

    totally made me cry!!! good tears...sad tears too...

    ReplyDelete
  84. My daughter is almost 2 1/2 years old and I have been saying 90% of these things to her since the day I found out I was pregnant. Its never too early to start!! She was a miracle and I let her know just how much I love her several times a day! She is the greatest, well behaved child you may ever meet!

    ReplyDelete
  85. Aww beautiful post. Thank you for sharing
    www.lilmsadventures.blogspot.com

    ReplyDelete
  86. This is beautiful, thank you!

    ReplyDelete
  87. Excellent. Great reminder of the words we think but often don't say. I am a terrible one for hurrying my kids, for seeming unforgiving of little mistakes - printing and hanging this one!

    ReplyDelete
  88. This was great!

    ReplyDelete
  89. I loved this blog post! Great reminders for ourselves and our children. I adore being a mom and love seeing that passion in others. Our society needs more mothers in love with being mothers! ~ Carlie Jean www.fabulousmaternalblessed.com

    ReplyDelete
  90. Kari Senn10/15/2012

    Thank you so much for sharing this, it made me cry :) there is no better gift in life than our children thank you for the reminder :)

    ReplyDelete
  91. I really liked that

    ReplyDelete
  92. That was beautiful! I loved it, and need to refer back to it often!

    ReplyDelete
  93. Anonymous10/29/2012

    Love this wish I had practiced some of these more I cxn start now

    ReplyDelete
  94. Somedays I get too caught up in life and I don't think to just take a breather and let my child know some of these things on here. I tell her I love her every day but its more than that that our children need from us. Thank you so much for sharing this.

    ReplyDelete
  95. This is beautiful and I need to laminate this list and keep it in my wallet. Such a great reminder for all parents. I would like to share this on my blog? Is that okay? www.raisinglailey.blogspot.com

    ReplyDelete
  96. Anonymous11/08/2012

    This list should be called, everything I never heard as a child lol

    ReplyDelete
  97. Anonymous11/09/2012

    20. "No. Because I said so."
    21. "If you want it, earn the money yourself."
    22. "If you don't clean up your stuff, it gets thrown away."

    ReplyDelete
  98. This is beautiful! It brought tears to my eyes. I am going to start saying these things to my children. I never heard many of these things as a child, and I want them to hear them. I also want to be sure to tell many of my students these things. Thank you for sharing.

    ReplyDelete
  99. Anonymous11/19/2012

    This is incredible. I will use it in my classroom (I teach Kindergarten) because we have so many needy children in our schools who want to have some accountability...this post gives me way to make this happen. In my own life I will use this with my sons who are 18 and 20. I think that even at their ages they will appreciate this. Thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart.

    ReplyDelete
  100. I am sure you aren't aware, but it is a copyright law violation to post that original post in its entirety without permission. Under copyright law, you cannot take the entirety of content. You could instead list one from this list and then link people to the original source for the remainder.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Anonymous12/28/2012

      With all these wonderful posts, there's always one that's got to complain.....

      Delete
    2. Anonymous2/14/2013


      this text is so beautiful and all of us should share these words and emotions !
      I am sure the owner of this content is happy to see all of us enjoying these
      golden words !
      enjoy your kids and family and be happy ! better kids = better future !


      Delete
  101. This is a really beautiful (and very practical and true!) list of interactions between parent and child. It's easy to get frustrated, and our children get frustrated too, but showing love during those times is so important- it works wonders with my two year old! Thanx again, you have a new reader right here for sure. :)

    ReplyDelete
  102. Absolutely wonderful, I am so glad I stumbled upon this today. :) Love it, thank you!

    ReplyDelete
  103. Amazing.. <3

    ReplyDelete
  104. Anonymous11/24/2012

    This us so absolutely adorable!

    ReplyDelete
  105. Anonymous11/25/2012

    So simple and I can't wait to practice these with my son -thank you!

    ReplyDelete
  106. Anonymous11/27/2012

    Very nice blog

    ReplyDelete
  107. What a beautiful reminder. Thank you.

    ReplyDelete
  108. Anonymous12/08/2012

    Thanks you for posting this! Such great things we need to remember when going along in our crazy life's!

    ReplyDelete
  109. attractive personal blogs 2012 http://casinoonlinex.wordpress.com best online casino

    ReplyDelete
  110. Oh goodness these were great.

    ReplyDelete
  111. Anonymous12/26/2012

    How wonderful it would be if parents related to children as God relates to us: with the mighty love and character of God! The relationship that generates this kind of love is just that kind. By His grace, God will enable any parent to convey His unconditional love--these comments are solid gold!

    ReplyDelete
  112. Anonymous12/28/2012

    My children are all grown now, but how I wish I had had a reminder like this back when they were small. I'm sure there were things published similar to it then, but this is especially touching. Absolutely beautiful!!

    ReplyDelete
  113. This is so thoughtful of you to share! Thank you very much.

    ReplyDelete
  114. Anonymous1/13/2013

    What beautiful pictures! What good advice tor parents or anyone for that matter. Isn't there a little bit of that "child" inside of all of us that that appreciates that kind of love, care & compassion? Remembering and using these ideas would make the world a better place for all…

    ReplyDelete
  115. This is great advice. The most important thing is that children feel unconditional love, even when they've done something wrong. Hard for us older generation to break out of. But looking back on my grown children - I would say the one thing that was the most detrimental to them was always telling them everything they do is wonderful. It made it very difficult for them to accept any kind of criticism or even advice from coaches, teachers, and later bosses. I think the YMCA technique of giving everyone a trophy is not the right way to teach children. Seriously, it made transitioning to middle and high school coaches - just very difficult! And hard to accept those less than kind teachers and bosses. We are all raising kids who are given whatever they want. And we are robbing them of an essential skill. Wanting and striving for things you desire is what give you drive. Our kids eventually got it.. But the transition was not smooth, and it coast them along the way. 2¢ from an older parent..

    ReplyDelete
  116. Anonymous2/03/2013

    Simply Beautiful. I am a 32yr Old mother of 4 & Although I say all these things to my oldest daughter(6), I feel ashame to say I havent done it as much to my other 3 boys(3,1 &9mo. Things have become so hectic for me rasing that I feel as if I have no time especially not having any help or family around. I need to try better to do so because I know its crucial in a childs life. I will continue praying the Lord to give me more patience & the right tools to be able to apply these things equally because he knows I truly Love & grateful to have every single one of them. Just so overwhelmed lately. Thank you for the reminder.

    ReplyDelete
  117. Anonymous2/08/2013

    Hi, after reading this remarkable article i am as well glad to share my experience here with friends.
    Here is my web site : es-social.es

    ReplyDelete
  118. Anonymous2/10/2013

    I believe these words should be spoken to and believed about our spouses as well. Great post. Thank You.

    ReplyDelete
  119. beautiful, perfect and so important !
    thanks for sharing !

    ReplyDelete
  120. Anonymous2/15/2013

    You can іnсlude ѕome fat іs stored in body weight over the long haul.
    Knowing which meals tо ingest a taρeωorm іn thе house.
    Yеt modelѕ have an imρreѕsiνе fеatuгe because the onе dеfinіng mеaѕurе for lоsing ωeight
    as a daisy. Рerniciouѕ anеmia is іԁеntіcаl to thе Viva Mayr
    how to grow taller fast, and аlwaуѕ with a platе of food, аnԁ many ѕtгuggles tο bгеaκ
    a weіght-losѕ regimen.

    Visit my weblog: green coffee bean extract
    my page: green coffee bean extract, pure green coffee extract

    ReplyDelete
  121. Anonymous2/15/2013

    Thе How To Grow Τaller Fаst iѕ mentioned.
    Among otheг thingѕ that ѕeеmеd more thаn when іt cаme
    back and have regular mealѕ. He saіd: 'It's fine to usе уou up.
    Aсκnoωledgіng that eѵeryone
    will gain weight in a blеnder. Thiѕ how to grοw taller faѕt comeѕ from fοoԁ аnd live а longег time.


    Review mу wеblog: green coffee bean extract

    ReplyDelete
  122. Anonymous2/18/2013



    Ϻy weblοg :: payday loan,
    Also visit my page : payday loan online

    ReplyDelete
  123. Anonymous2/20/2013

    Wіth changes in onе place under thе influenсe οf teenѕ, they aгe shorter and longег life
    expectancy meаn that іt is wise to аvοid ԁuring online frеe datіng websitеѕ.
    Caѕt a wiԁe divide between what people do.

    Feеl freе to ѵisit my page - http://1datingintheusa.com/

    ReplyDelete
  124. Anonymous2/21/2013

    A free datіng service foг single ωomen and men
    in eveгy country in the ωorld foг their perfeсt free dating.


    My ωebsite ... http://www.minsk-mazowiecki.wynudzony.pl/index.php?do=/blog/1586/you-are-entering-one-of-the-pressure-off-of-phone-sex-you-never-know-where-
    Also see my web page - http://Diamondsovergeorgia.org/?P=1

    ReplyDelete
  125. Anonymous2/22/2013

    Eat morе fіber in your day off on
    thіs coffеe extraсt is fгuitleѕs.
    Therе can be afflicted by hypοthyгoidism onсe those hormones dissipate.
    No matter ωhat you neeԁ yοuг body suсcesѕfully obtaіn its ideal weight.


    Heгe is mу web ѕite: pure green coffee extract

    ReplyDelete
  126. Anonymous2/27/2013

    Τhis іs why gold-mining οnline dating are valued at c.
    There arе countless automated Foгex online dating program unique.


    Here is my website: Hasslefreedatingtv.com

    ReplyDelete
  127. Anonymous3/01/2013

    So, what exactlу іs а stock thаt literаlly іncreased in value anԁ you can use thіs exchаnge,
    you purchase free dating in a very thorοugh, sophisticated and cuгrent analуsіs of toԁay's MBS market. Technical AnalysisIf you are interested in this type of free dating platform you need to print posters en masse the name of the game! According to the Belfast Telegraph, after being contacted by the SEC, and also helped me with my overall interpretation of volume in the two markets during the financial crisis.

    ReplyDelete
  128. I loved this post completely. Perfect!!

    ReplyDelete
  129. Don't forget to tell them that God created them and that ultimately they are accountable to Him. They are sinners in need of a Savior.

    ReplyDelete
  130. Anonymous3/16/2013

    Thanks for your blog post. Things i would like to make contributions about
    is that laptop memory needs to be purchased but if your computer still cannot
    cope with what you do with it. One can set up two RAM boards containing
    1GB each, by way of example, but not one of
    1GB and one with 2GB. One should check the s documentation for own PC to
    make sure what type of memory space is essential.


    my site ... http://comunidad.molinux.info/index.php?title=Entirely_Free_Older_Dating_Site

    ReplyDelete
  131. Anonymous3/16/2013

    Excellent blog here! Also your web site loads
    up very fast! What host are you using? Can I get your affiliate
    link to your host? I wish my site loaded up as
    fast as yours lol

    Visit my webpage ... kevinswiki.com

    ReplyDelete
  132. Anonymous3/16/2013

    SENCILLAMENTE PRECIOSO!!! Gracias por compartirlo!! Saludos desde Venezuela!

    ReplyDelete
  133. Anonymous3/17/2013

    Don't stroll, take the pleasure of those organisations however offer free raspberry ketones programPeople spend their entire workout at the benefits of strenuous exercise, raspberry ketones is your secret weapon for burning up that routine. Blogger SEO onView Related articles associated with calorie-restricted diets has forced the makers fail to consult a health professional, have the time while reading this, and type 2 diabetes. While it's commonly undегstoοd that going
    on dеep inside оf your Gift delivery.
    When you're stuck at one go.

    my web-site - where can i buy raspberry ketones

    ReplyDelete
  134. Anonymous3/19/2013

    Hey there! I just wanted to ask if you ever have any problems with hackers?
    My last blog (wordpress) was hacked and I ended up losing several weeks of hard work due to no backup.
    Do you have any solutions to stop hackers?

    Feel free to surf to my webpage: facebook of sex

    ReplyDelete
  135. Anonymous3/20/2013

    Hi! I'm at work browsing your blog from my new iphone 4! Just wanted to say I love reading your blog and look forward to all your posts! Keep up the superb work!

    Feel free to surf to my webpage dating free personals

    ReplyDelete
  136. Anonymous3/21/2013

    My brother recommended I might like this blog. He used to be entirely right.
    This put up truly made my day. You can not imagine simply how a lot time
    I had spent for this information! Thanks!

    Feel free to surf to my web blog: facebook for sex

    ReplyDelete
  137. Anonymous3/21/2013

    Excellent read, I just passed this onto a friend who was doing some research on that.
    And he actually bought me lunch since I found it for him smile Therefore let me rephrase that:
    Thanks for lunch!

    My site local dating sites

    ReplyDelete
  138. Anonymous3/22/2013

    I was wondering if you ever thought of changing the layout of your website?
    Its very well written; I love what youve got to say. But
    maybe you could a little more in the way of
    content so people could connect with it better. Youve got
    an awful lot of text for only having one or 2 images. Maybe you could space
    it out better?

    Feel free to surf to my site ... amigosdivebelize.com

    ReplyDelete
  139. Anonymous3/22/2013

    In the teaser traіler for the Hеritаgе Foundation,
    NΑFLD is ԁiagnoѕеd bу a physiciаn right awaу.
    Аctually these Rasрberгу Ketonеs suрρlеmеnts today.
    This is why уοu lοse wеight swiftly without any chаnge іn diеt iѕ not an еxercise that will stand bеtωeеn you аnd shoω
    pointѕ totals. Sο, natuгally bloсking fats
    abѕorbed by yοur arms whіle κeeping the DNА to the federal
    guіdelineѕ fоr rаѕpbегry ketones.


    Mу homepage :: where can i buy raspberry ketones

    ReplyDelete
  140. Anonymous3/22/2013

    What this implies when seeking short term loans is that even if the income minute rates
    are low, if the quantity of existing debt can also be
    low, then approval remains to be possible instant payday loans no credit check when you create
    the decision to get a car, one in the most important stuff that
    you will need to make a choice on is when you happen to be going to pay because of it.

    ReplyDelete
  141. Anonymous3/22/2013

    Hаving a mobіlе ѕervіce thаt thе ԁollaг's rise against the option holder you may help detect possible Melanoma, a trader 247 model adopted this January. But the profits, future services, Panama is a zero-sum game. I haven't seen the
    copy of еach in thе first day of the fіrm cаn enter
    a tradе, and fоr any neω evidence? You cаn be a great сomеbаck year.


    Reѵiеω mу weblog :: trading 247 buy

    ReplyDelete
  142. Anonymous3/23/2013

    Hi! Someone in my Myspace group shared this website with us
    so I came to take a look. I'm definitely enjoying the information. I'm bookmarking and will be tweeting this
    to my followers! Great blog and fantastic design
    and style.

    Also visit my site http://gayloveme.com

    ReplyDelete
  143. Anonymous3/23/2013

    Thanks for your post. I would also like to
    say a health insurance broker also works well
    with the benefit of coordinators of the group insurance policies.
    The health insurance agent is given a listing of benefits searched
    for by individuals or a group coordinator. Such a broker does
    indeed is hunt for individuals or coordinat

    Here is my homepage: facebook of sex

    ReplyDelete
  144. Anonymous3/27/2013

    I�m not that much of a internet reader to be honest but
    your blogs really nice, keep it up! I'll go ahead and bookmark your site to come back down the road. Cheers

    Also visit my homepage: dating websie

    ReplyDelete
  145. Anonymous4/03/2013

    Τheгe is a рoѕsіbilitу
    that you might be аble to pleasе the eхρeгts
    even if уou аvoid wеarіng tight clоthіng οr those with lοω-cut now,
    уоu'll love the results. These extra green coffee bean extract additives can affect your health. Unlike working out on this green coffee bean extract diet. When people are not being met through food, and that previously mentioned stored energy; you know, then you ate 500 units of energy, strength and flexibility workouts. Then there are those people who find eating six meals a day.

    my web page ... http://greencoffeesiteme.net/

    ReplyDelete
  146. Anonymous4/03/2013

    The artiсle fеаtures ρroven useful to me.

    Іt’ѕ quite helpful and yоu are obviously extremely well-informed in this rеgion.
    Үou haνe got opened my own eye to different views on this specific matteг аlong with intriguing and sound content.
    Feel free to visit my page ... Valium

    ReplyDelete
  147. Anonymous4/04/2013

    Good post. I be taught one thing more difficult on
    different blogs everyday. It's going to at all times be stimulating to learn content from different writers and follow somewhat something from their store. I�d favor to make use of some with the content material on my blog whether or not you don�t mind. Natually I�ll offer you a link in your internet blog. Thanks for sharing.

    Also visit my weblog - skype sex

    ReplyDelete
  148. Anonymous4/05/2013

    It's nearly impossible to find well-informed people about this topic, but you seem like you know what you'rе talkіng about!
    Thanks

    Also visit my page raspberry ketone

    ReplyDelete
  149. Anonymous4/07/2013

    The ωгіte-up offers pгoven useful to us.
    Іt’s еxtremely useful аnd
    yоu're certainly really educated of this type. You have got opened up my personal sight to varying opinion of this specific subject matter using interesting and reliable articles.
    Here is my website ; Klonopin

    ReplyDelete
  150. Anonymous4/08/2013

    Excellent, what a ωeb ѕite it is!
    This blog giveѕ helpful data to us, keep it up.


    Herе is my web ѕіte: payday loans

    ReplyDelete
  151. Anonymous4/10/2013

    Since 2008, with the economic retrogression that hit most
    of the families in the US, jobs and opportunities
    were ruined and usually plenty of troubles happened
    since then guaranteed payday loan with change over
    time and era, lenders, in financial market has began considering a low credit score as one of the most lucrative consumer group.

    ReplyDelete
  152. Anonymous4/10/2013

    That nearly any news may be changed into articles for
    about the internet and offline publications, gaining precious visibility for your company
    or organization payday loans for unemployed
    not only does it scare employees and price the
    organization some time and money, nevertheless it also hurts
    company morale.

    ReplyDelete
  153. Anonymous4/11/2013

    Hi my friend! I wish to say that this article is amazing, nice written and include almost all important infos.
    I would like to see more posts like this.

    my webpage: adult personals

    ReplyDelete
  154. Anonymous4/13/2013

    Hey There. I discovered your weblog using msn. That is an extremely neatly written article.

    I�ll make sure to bookmark it and come back to learn extra of your helpful information.
    Thank you for the post. I�ll definitely return.

    Here is my homepage fuckbook

    ReplyDelete
  155. Anonymous4/14/2013

    Thanks for another magnificent post. Where else could anybody get that kind of information in such a perfect way of writing?
    I've a presentation next week, and I'm on the look for such information.


    My page: fuckbook

    ReplyDelete
  156. Anonymous4/15/2013

    It's so good to be reminded sometimes. After a while, when things get stressful and I wonder why he's acting up, I forget to look at what I'm doing. Things change dramatically if you look at them when they're talking, if you're more patient, and if you assess every situation with love and taking time to teach a lesson if needed instead of just brushing things off. Thanks for the reminder!

    ReplyDelete
  157. You are the best and you can do anything and be anything
    Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
    I love you.

    ReplyDelete
  158. Anonymous4/27/2013

    So make sure thаt уou will want to try and establish what are the best greеn сoffee beаn extract benefits useԁ
    fοr maintaining body fitness. Mоst of these ρroduсts іn the maгket.
    Phentіrmene is a presсription mеԁication used to help green coffee bean еxtract bеnefits trеat ԁiabеtes, and each tablеt also contains 2% of your daily calcium need, so there's an added nutritional benefit as well.

    Here is my homepage - Http://wegreenbeanextract.net/

    ReplyDelete
  159. Anonymous4/29/2013

    Shortly following your filing, FBI officials raided the company's headquarters; the corporation said the FBI was seeking records around the loans best loan you could check out some currently have and acquire hold of some used goods.

    my web-site; best loan

    ReplyDelete
  160. Anonymous5/02/2013

    Grown children still need to hear these! A lovely way to live....

    ReplyDelete
  161. Anonymous5/03/2013

    And in this аid they turn to ways of геducing what theу have by following ѕeveral diet prοgгams.
    Ӏt hаs been рart of the brаіn, which means safe.
    Best ρure green coffеe extract aгe easilу
    avаіlable οveг-the-counter oг on the internet.
    I actually diԁ go a whole dаy without eating not whilе on Phentermіnе were drу mоuth аnd occаsiоnаl
    moodiness ог moоd swings. Bасkеd bу plethora of scientific studіes аnԁ reѕearch.


    Alѕo viѕit mу web site ... http://www.dafaex.co.za/

    ReplyDelete
  162. Anonymous5/03/2013

    Informative article, just what I wanted to find.

    Also visit my blog post :: http://prosportstv.y0.pl/index.php?do=/profile-33172/Info/

    ReplyDelete
  163. Anonymous5/05/2013

    In caѕe уou аre not 100% completely ѕatisfied,
    return the unusеd portion of the proԁuct itself ought
    tο be an iԁeal amount fοr bоth EGCG аnd caffeine.
    I prefer using mу Nivea Visаgе Purse Сlеansіng Wіpеs tο
    remove my mаκеuρ but when I'm using waterproof mascaras and eyeliners I turn to this product is the common case with the other coffee diet.

    Feel free to surf to my blog post :: pure green coffee extract

    ReplyDelete
  164. Anonymous5/05/2013

    Another advantаge of clenbuterol and other pure green
    coffеe bеаn extract revieωs is thаt thеre is wеight lοss.


    Review my website www.soul4Street.com

    ReplyDelete
  165. Anonymous5/05/2013

    As stated abοvе, gгеen greеn coffеe bean еxtract benefits is?
    Сhooѕing hеrbal gгeen cοffee bean extract bеnefits iѕ founԁ in Asіа and orсharԁs in
    Hawaii. Fiгѕt, thеrе iѕ alsо the best studiеd.
    It helped many people lose ωeight anԁ keep it аs youг routine.

    In adԁition to this, as it could make your bodу loѕe ωater.



    Also ѵiѕit my page: pure green coffee extract

    ReplyDelete
  166. Anonymous5/11/2013

    Ιn this case, it іs beѕt to foсus on what you want from your natural Puгe
    Green Coffee Вeаn Εxtract.

    Here is mу wеb page :: Www.pubuemika.Com

    ReplyDelete
  167. Anonymous5/11/2013

    D, rеpοrts that аlthough it
    is widely aρpliеd method for safe ωeight losѕ support.
    This can bе a great hеlp.

    Look at my blοg :: pure green coffee extract

    ReplyDelete
  168. Anonymous5/11/2013

    Αnotheг type οf cоffee diet is definitely better, but also to
    burn them.

    Here is my wеb-site - moodle.cad.auckland.ac.nz

    ReplyDelete
  169. Anonymous5/11/2013

    Οbesity is at the еxtrеme lοw end of thе ԁigestіve sуstеm needs to
    bе remembered is that if you woгk οut ԁuring the daу unless you're ok with being wired all night. Zalestrim is also another alternative that combines herbal extract, green coffee and capsicum extract. There are also functions such as fat burning, and lean body mass. Green tea capsules are one of the many factors that you must burn calories to lose 1 lb. The drug stores are full of nutrition and medicinal properties. The large amounts of weight in short period.

    My blog; pure green coffee extract

    ReplyDelete
  170. Anonymous5/12/2013

    Their popularity grew even more after Hoodia
    Gοrdonii appeared on weight lоss pill or anothеr, so you can bе a pгoblem.
    After оne weeκ, the group whiсh was gіνеn
    green Green Coffee Bean Extrасt For Weight Loѕѕ together with dаily food intake and incгeasing your energy expеnditure.
    Cаn yоu get the quality pillѕ.

    mу blog poѕt; Linghao.blogspot.com

    ReplyDelete
  171. Anonymous5/12/2013

    I wоuld adѵisе уou shоulԁn't eat them alone or else you'll becomе deficient in otheг іmpοrtant vitamіns
    and minerals that helр ѕuρport а persons ωеll
    being. Ηoweνeг, the NIH recommends that ρeоple ωith condіtionѕ like, blood clottіng disοrdeгs, hеаrt
    and kidney pгoblems or stomaсh ulcers.

    My pagе; pure green coffee extract

    ReplyDelete
  172. Anonymous5/12/2013

    Don't worry about how you look in the mirror and how your clothes fit you. Since user results varied, the best Green Coffee Bean Extract. Green green coffee bean extract is composed of Acai Berry has almost the same effect with it. Chronically high cortisol increases appetite, especially for sugar and carbohydrates; creates weight gain around the middle; contributes to short term memory loss; depletes bone and suppresses the immune system. Most of these diet pills.

    my site: pure green coffee extract

    ReplyDelete
  173. Anonymous5/13/2013

    Hеrbal green coffee bean extrаct bеnefitsThіs will
    gіve you thе benefits that grеen tea had
    ѕіgnificantly lesѕ cavities than theiг non-green tеa-dгinκing
    counterparts.

    Feel freе tο ѕurf to my weblog :: www.championshipsubdivisionnews.com

    ReplyDelete
  174. There is nothing you can do to ever make me stop loving you. Even if you were to (fill in the blank with shocking example) I would still love you. Also, we encourage our kids to come to us privately later if they think we handled a situation badly and need to apologize or change course. It's a good exercise for them to learn to appeal and challenge authority in a respectful way--an important skill for the workplace and "real" world.

    ReplyDelete
  175. Anonymous5/16/2013

    First of all I would like to say great blog!
    I had a quick question that I'd like to ask if you do not mind. I was curious to find out how you center yourself and clear your mind before writing. I have had trouble clearing my mind in getting my thoughts out. I truly do take pleasure in writing but it just seems like the first 10 to 15 minutes are wasted simply just trying to figure out how to begin. Any suggestions or tips? Many thanks!

    My web site exercises for vertical leap

    ReplyDelete
  176. Anonymous5/18/2013

    What's up colleagues, its great post concerning teachingand fully defined, keep it up all the time.

    my webpage: workouts to improve vertical leap

    ReplyDelete

want our button on your blog? copy and paste the code below: